Everyone is voicing out for LBGT, equal marraige.
During the Facebook campaign of changing profile picture into rainbow colours, I joined too.
I’m really not against this, I agree on this too.
I hope everyone can find their true love and get married, despite of gender, race…
I always think myself as an open-minded person. But something strikes me these days.
One of my football teammates get into a relationship, with the same gender.
So I was counting, among our football team, with the most recently one, a total of three persons are now having an affair with the same sex, two people had it. None of us have/had relationship with the opposite gender. Do people get together with same gender when they started to think it’s ok? When people around them are doing the same?
To me, a person without any love experience yet, I have totally no idea what love is. I just doubt, how would you differentiate between love and like. So when you’re with your close friend, you’re happy, you can talk whatever with him/her, you wanna protect and help him/her whenever they have difficulties, is this love? Or just friendship? Would you suddenly think, ok, I’m lonely, I want a partner, and I’m happy with my friend, so I’ll ask him/her out, no matter their gender?
What’s the line?
Seems to me that, close friends are always of the same gender, cuz some closer things to talk to, and the boundary between love and friendship in the old days are, you don’t have super close friends with opposite sex, and you don’t have love relationship with same sex.
Yes. I was raised this way. In this traditional mindset. Cuz I’m born before twenty first century. And I’m an Asian.
I respect all those who come out. But every time I heard the news, I just get super shocked. Shocker when I heard my friend is in a relationship with the opposite sex. I just can’t hold myself from thinking this. I thought I’m open minded. I always think that. But seems deep inside me, I can’t accept the fact at the first instant. I have to ‘digest’ it for a few days.
Or is this normal? For everyone?
These days everything, every principles I was told, how I was raised, began to turnover by others. My world is spinning.
Probably the only way I can get a solution is to fall in love. (Mission impossible…)